I am re-reading my favorite chick lit book: The Dirty Girls Social Club by Alisa Valdes-Rodrigues. I like her stuff but I must say this is my favorite. Even though I've read it twice I still laugh out loud at all the good parts and shed tears during the sadder moments.
One of my favorite quotes from the book is:
"People do not find you appealing because you impress them with who you are; they find you appealing because you make them feel good about themselves for knowing you."
I'll post more quotes as I re-discover them.
Trust me, this is a must read if you are Latina or female or love Latinas and females! It humorously addresses all the frustrations, stereotypes and identity issues we are faced with on de regular.